test(09-05): add failing tests for deterministic bulk delete

- Empty selections are 422 and duplicates run once in primary-key order
- A completed retry and an all-absent selection delete nothing and skip hooks
- Mixed, hook, cancel, and concurrent requests keep the batch atomic

cabana/crud_lifecycle_test.go

@@ -43,6 +43,9 @@ func (c *hookController) NewRecord() any {
 	}
 	return &crudRow{}
 }
+func (c *hookController) ListExtendQuery(ctx context.Context, db *gorm.DB) *gorm.DB {
+	return c.FormExtendQuery(ctx, db)
+}
 func (c *hookController) FormExtendQuery(ctx context.Context, db *gorm.DB) *gorm.DB {
 	if c != nil {
 		c.queries.Add(1)