feat(12.1-01): list row states from one controller call per page

- pact.ListRowStates with the fixed RowState set deleted, negative, disabled
- list response meta.row_states keyed by row id; unknown values dropped
- list messages rowStateDeleted, rowStateNegative, rowStateDisabled
- update writes through the scope the load used, so a soft-deleted record
  a controller includes stays soft-deleted
- DataTable row state badges and text styles
- roster fixture, smoke tests, OpenAPI, TS types, dist, READMEs, docs

admin/tests/fixtures/extension.list-schema.json

@@ -99,6 +99,15 @@
       },
       "selected": {
         "other": "Selected :count"
+      },
+      "rowStateDeleted": {
+        "other": "Deleted"
+      },
+      "rowStateNegative": {
+        "other": "Blocked"
+      },
+      "rowStateDisabled": {
+        "other": "Inactive"
       }
     },
     "meta": {