feat(12.1-01): list row states from one controller call per page

- pact.ListRowStates with the fixed RowState set deleted, negative, disabled
- list response meta.row_states keyed by row id; unknown values dropped
- list messages rowStateDeleted, rowStateNegative, rowStateDisabled
- update writes through the scope the load used, so a soft-deleted record
  a controller includes stays soft-deleted
- DataTable row state badges and text styles
- roster fixture, smoke tests, OpenAPI, TS types, dist, READMEs, docs

admin/tests/fixtures/roster.list.json

@@ -4,5 +4,14 @@
     { "id": 2, "name": "Bob Stone", "email": "bob@example.test" },
     { "id": 3, "name": "Cy Young", "email": "cy@example.test" }
   ],
-  "meta": { "page": 1, "per_page": 20, "total": 3, "last_page": 1 }
+  "meta": {
+    "page": 1,
+    "per_page": 20,
+    "total": 3,
+    "last_page": 1,
+    "row_states": {
+      "2": ["deleted", "negative"],
+      "3": ["disabled", "starred"]
+    }
+  }
 }