feat(12.1-01): list row states from one controller call per page

- pact.ListRowStates with the fixed RowState set deleted, negative, disabled
- list response meta.row_states keyed by row id; unknown values dropped
- list messages rowStateDeleted, rowStateNegative, rowStateDisabled
- update writes through the scope the load used, so a soft-deleted record
  a controller includes stays soft-deleted
- DataTable row state badges and text styles
- roster fixture, smoke tests, OpenAPI, TS types, dist, READMEs, docs

modules/cabana/admin_openapi.go

@@ -335,6 +335,7 @@ func AdminFilterOptions() {}
 // AdminList documents the record list route.
 //
 // @Summary List admin records
+// @Description meta.row_states carries the states of the page's rows keyed by row id, each a subset of deleted, negative and disabled; it is absent when the controller reports no state.
 // @Tags admin
 // @Produce json
 // @Security BackendBearer