feat(12.1-01): list row states from one controller call per page

- pact.ListRowStates with the fixed RowState set deleted, negative, disabled
- list response meta.row_states keyed by row id; unknown values dropped
- list messages rowStateDeleted, rowStateNegative, rowStateDisabled
- update writes through the scope the load used, so a soft-deleted record
  a controller includes stays soft-deleted
- DataTable row state badges and text styles
- roster fixture, smoke tests, OpenAPI, TS types, dist, READMEs, docs

modules/cabana/testdata/roster/controllers/people/config_list.yaml

@@ -11,3 +11,4 @@ toolbar:
 bulkActions: [activate, archive]
 messages:
     create: acme.roster::lang.people.create
+    rowStateDisabled: acme.roster::lang.people.state_inactive