feat(12.1-01): list row states from one controller call per page

- pact.ListRowStates with the fixed RowState set deleted, negative, disabled
- list response meta.row_states keyed by row id; unknown values dropped
- list messages rowStateDeleted, rowStateNegative, rowStateDisabled
- update writes through the scope the load used, so a soft-deleted record
  a controller includes stays soft-deleted
- DataTable row state badges and text styles
- roster fixture, smoke tests, OpenAPI, TS types, dist, READMEs, docs

modules/phrasebook/backend/lang/en/lang.yaml

@@ -173,6 +173,9 @@ messages:
     deleted:
       one: "Deleted :count record"
       other: "Deleted :count records"
+    row_state_deleted: Deleted
+    row_state_negative: Blocked
+    row_state_disabled: Inactive
   form:
     create: New record
     update: Edit record