feat(12.1-01): list row states from one controller call per page

- pact.ListRowStates with the fixed RowState set deleted, negative, disabled
- list response meta.row_states keyed by row id; unknown values dropped
- list messages rowStateDeleted, rowStateNegative, rowStateDisabled
- update writes through the scope the load used, so a soft-deleted record
  a controller includes stays soft-deleted
- DataTable row state badges and text styles
- roster fixture, smoke tests, OpenAPI, TS types, dist, READMEs, docs

modules/phrasebook/backend/lang/pl/lang.yaml

@@ -189,6 +189,9 @@ messages:
       few: "Usunięto :count rekordy"
       many: "Usunięto :count rekordów"
       other: "Usunięto :count rekordu"
+    row_state_deleted: Usunięty
+    row_state_negative: Zablokowany
+    row_state_disabled: Nieaktywny
   form:
     create: Nowy rekord
     update: Edycja rekordu